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I am a 24 year old woman and cannot climax during sex. I have had sex with 10 guys since I was 16 as that’s the legal age in Australia, but none of them bar one made me orgasm during sex (I was 22). Not even my long term boyfriends who spent alot of time and effort trying to make it happen. My current boyfriend made it happen once becuase we were in missionary and he was grinding his pelvic bone against my clit. The mood the rythem and the breathing was perfect (classic making love moment while on holidays in europe) but we have not been able to re create this. I don’t climax during oral either unless the guy is really good and spends about an hour or more on that area. I can make myself climax with a bullet everytime but not with my hand. Sex feels really good don’t get me wrong, but I am starting to get rather annoyed and not look forward to sex because I get jealous of my man being able to climax evey time and all I think about is that fact that I won’t climax. And it’s disbaling me to get turned on thinking about. Which is another reason I have started to not look forward to sex. I love my man and it’s totally not his fault as apparently like 65% of women can’t climax during sex. My friends tell me about how easy it is for them to climax during sex and all that…It’s not fair. I have tried a cactus drop to turn me on more I have tried relaxing I have tried the PC muscle exercises different positions. Do you think that I will have to get a medical thing like the nasal spray guys get when they ejaculate too fast? It’s available to women though Advanced Medical Institute. Are there any tips or suggestions or products you could suggest to help my problem. Thanks so much
I rarely use the bullet on myself. I just want to be able to orgasm through sex without the hastle of holding a toy there as then my focus is on holding it in the right place instead of the feeling I am getting. It’s way too hard to hold something there during sex in any position. Also the feeling of climaxing through sex and through a bullet are rather different and I tense up alot while trying to have sex and use a toy at the same time. My man know’s that I am very hard to please but is still one of those guys that thinks he fails as a bf because he can’t get me there. I think there actually may be a problem with my libido as well…my sex drive is very low and yes I am on the pill Yasmin (Diane 35 made my horny as a rabbit)

When we(males) came across the men’s health topics on the web ,we find a flood of articles on the SIZE OF THE MAN TOOL urging male to use their products/pro grammes to get the right or the bigger size which almost 100% women crave for.

l want to know the view point of females "Does SIZE really matters ??? or the quality of erection/hardness can alone do the job of reaching multiple orgasms ?? or achieve the intensity of orgasm they have been dreaming for ???

A couple of my friends set up these parties where a representative from a pleasure store comes to their house and introduces sex toys, lubes, and other sexual stuff to them. I attended the last party they had and they had magazines and samples of all of their products.My best friend uses sex toys all the time to masturbate and she keeps trying to convince me to buy one but im kind of iffy. I mean i do masturbate but i normally do it by pillow because i can not orgasm by using my fingers. So i was curious is any of you ladies have used a sex toy such as a dildo or a vibrator and it worked for you even though you cant orgasm by being fingered?

Im sorry if this question is offensive to anyone, i am just looking for some answers because i do not want to waste my money on something so silly when it wont even work for me.

Thanks :)

My girlfriend and I had sex with a condom the day before she was supposed to get her period. The condom broke, but I didn’t ejaculate yet. I stopped and put on a new condom. The next day, she got her period as expected and is still having it two days later.

I’ve been reading that it is very unlikely for a woman to get pregnant the day before her period, since fertility is usually in the middle (around day 11-16) of her cycle. I am just worried because she told me of pain in her stomach, and she threw up. She said these are unusual symptoms to go along with her period.

Although I did not see any ejaculate when the condom broke and I wasn’t close to orgasm, I am still worried about the possibility of her getting pregnant. It will take about another 2 weeks before we can use an at-home pregnancy test, but it is too late to use emergency contraception like the morning after pill.

What is the liklihood that she is pregnant, and is there anything to do about it at this stage?
My girlfriend’s period ended Thursday, and we had sex yesterday, Friday.

She experienced some spotting last night, the day we had sex. Does this mean she’s pregnant? We could use Plan B for yesterday’s intercourse, but not for the one I was initially concerned about, right?

First I should clarify that I am a male and that everything I talk about in this question is true. Ever since I can remember I’ve been able to simulate orgasm. I’m not sure how I came across it the first time or how old I was (probably between 5 and 7 tho), but I do remember laying on my stomach and kind of moving around and applying pressure to my private parts against the floor (I have no idea if I had anything sexual on my mind, especially this first time) and working up an intense feeling until a certain blood pressure or something was achieved and I experienced “a very pleasurable feeling” (No erection involved, no touching of genitals). I remember repeating this occasionally simply because it felt good and I didn’t know any better, no idea if it was monthly, weekly, daily. I don’t know if this was actually an orgasm because it’s actually kind of hard to remember that far. Also I don’t think any semen was involved until I was able to masturbate the conventional way. However, if I was to use this technique today I would be able to experience orgasm and semen, so I have to believe that the “very pleasurable feeling” I use to have was actually an orgasm (I know this probably sounds really really crazy for a 5-7 yr old). I do remember my mom watching me do this once (I didn’t have to be naked to do this) when I was little and I basically told her it felt good. She just told me to do it in private and I don’t think she realized I was experiencing “orgasms”. I actually refuse to let myself masturbate in this way now because I’m worried about sexual health problems (erectile dysfunction, possible varicose veins). That’s part of the reason I’m asking this question, and there are also psychological problems I’m worried about (I’ve been addicted to porn at times and anti-social at times, especially with girls, and women now). I am currently college age and I guess the reason I’m asking this question is because I’ve read other similar questions but they usually don’t talk about actual orgasms at this age or masturbation without an erection, and I’m just wondering if anyone knows any information on this or if I should seek guidance. I’m looking for experts or just someone who has firsthand knowledge, but anyone can answer this question. Please no jokesters. Thanks
Sorry about the lengthy explanation

Although some women are "orgasmic" at an early age, many don’t achieve orgasm very easily until their thirties or forties.

However, at what typical age range (if any) do women begin to lose their ability to achieve orgasm?
I don’t believe that being non-orgasmic would necessarily cause a woman to not like sex.