Posts Tagged ‘love’

Where can a woman who wears a 38DDD find a pretty supportive bra that won't squish her?

Most bras I’ve seen for my size look like the old lunchroom lady bras. They are pointy, uncomfortable, and not very nice to look at. I see alot of smaller sizes with pretty bras and they dont have the seems in them like to larger sizes. I would like to find a bra for a 38DDD that is sexy, doesn’t minimize my bust, but is able to support the wieght. If anyone knows were to find such a bra, I’d love to know.

How many calories a day will result in successful weight loss? With 30mins exercise a day aswell?

How many calories a day will result in successful weight loss? With 30mins exercise a day aswell.?
5’2 / 158cm
41kg / 93 lbs
Need to loose stomach / leg fat / love handles
15 years old

Love x

How can I tell what body shape I have?

I am 5’1 and weigh 120.
I am long waisted, with short legs.
I have a fairly large bust.
I have larger hips, and muscular thighs and calves.
Last, I have love handles.

At what body fat percentage do love handles go away, and men start to develop the V shape?

I am curious about this. I know you can do certain workouts to develop the more V shaped upper body, but at what body fat % do your love handles taper off, and go straight down? Thanks.
lol @ everyone giving me workout advice. I don’t need your advice, everyone and their mother as a "special way" to lose weight. I got what works for me. Just trying to figure out the time frame I’ll be with less prominent love handles.

what can I do, he is miserable?

My fiancee went to visit his son in az last week, during that time he not only saw his son but caught up with his old friends who are all into fast cars drinking and drugs. he was pulled over with some of them one night and was put in jail for one night. he went to court and was put on probation. he came back to wi on halloween night. and instead of coming straight home to us he went to a party with some co workers and made some bad decisions there.he didn’t have sex or cheat on me in anyway, but he said when he came home that he went to "drink himself stupid" he came home the next day and was not the same man that left a week before. he is very depressed and keeps moping around and saying how he wants to quit his job and pretty much just give up on life. he says that he still loves me, but is not in love with me. I really don’t understand that because I am still as much in love with him as i was when we first started dating. we are having a baby in march and i am very scared that he does not want to be with me anymore. I am high risk with my pregnancy and am supposed to be lowering the stress level. which as you can see is impossible. also I have a 1 year old at home and she is not his child but calls him daddy and knows no one else as her father. he doesn’t want to get up in the morning and is always exhausted. I tried to cheer him up in every way i could think of, but nothing seems to work for more then a few minutes.

I know that when you come back from a really fun vacation many people go through a with drawl stage. but this seems more than that.

I am very worried about him because he has always been happy and aside from a few arguments we have remained close.

He also keeps bringing up weird things like the planet x thing that says we are all going to die in 2012. he brings this up at least 5 times an hour.

I want to know if anyone has ever experienced this or has some input. I don’t want to loose the relationship or something worse like him bottling everything up so much that he tries to commit suicide or gets into the wrong crowd (which the co workers he went to the party with are) and something bad happens because of that.

he has always been a family man and been focused on the kids. now he wants to go out and party and drink… even his taste in music has changed. its just very frightening to see someone I love to go through this and i can so nothing to help.

do i have depression or am i lazy?(i am giving my most sicere toughs, and real events)?

Ok i will tell u everything. i was raised perfectly till i was around 11. my mom loved me, never did she leave me behind.i was always very healthy thanks to her. but that sometimes troubled me cus i wanted to be cared for or nursed, i kinda wanted the mothers embrace… i dont kno if i really had it or not. i never liked school, bad grades all the time… for me it was kida like pressure. after i became a teen, i became anti social, i wud lie about my life, making up stories of relationships i never had or even existed. i have had an inferiority complex my whole life… because i was different than all my family members ( darker tha all of them so they called me blacky ) they are nt racist, the man who raised me was black ad me and my mom loved him a lot, all of my family did. but i still felt inferior. when i turned 14i became very aggressive towards everyone, i tough i was a burden to everyone. and eve if they really cared for me i tough it was forced love so i became upset and i wud cry at all times. my step dad arrived from chile, and he always brag about what he did when he wasmy age, he wud say that he had all the gir he wanted, it really hurt me. i mean i was fat, anti social, all i wud do is play video games and make up stories about a good life were all the girls liked me… thanks to him i had counceling for 2 yeas for depression due to too mutch crying… i also felt ignored by my mom, my step dad has always used destructive critisim on me but i ussually ignore it, but is kinda like a mine it just detonates later on. i became really agressive, i wud attack him wenever he wud critisice him even pointed a knife at him. and my mom wud call me crazy and i wud just feel terrible. every knight around 2 i wud wake up and prepare a glass of chocolate milk and look at a knife and put it on my wrist… but never did anything, i wud just say that i was a lazy guy and go to sleep crying for being such a coward. i wasnt cut out for working with heavi stuff and what my mom call man’s work. but i never liked doing anything else except paiting and playing games, i was extremly anty social. i started high school and i wasnt all emo anymore i was kinda like a rebel, i lost weight i wasnt bad looking… but i was stil anti social i wuldnt get close to people so it wud cause me to get in lots of fights. for the first time i made a best friend i was 16 turnig 17 and i whent out with his sister who was 2 years younger than me, she is really cute and liked me a lot. she wud care of me and healed my lip piercing. wheni got a cold she wud make me a sup. i didt reac the way she hoped for i wud just close my self up, i didnt kno how to react to something like that.i always said i wouldnt trust her cus i dont trust none. one day she came from a 15 party and i found out she danced with this kid… i felt horrible like i wanted to die. but my stupid manly pried took over and i jst treated her like shit. i found out in valentines day he ask her out and she said first she had to see what wud happen with me. she gav him the gift she was suppose to give me. we almost broke up that day but she decided to give me another chance. but that day my trust was destryed so i wud flirt with any girl i liked including her best friend. everyone hated me all her friends everyone. at my house thigs were still bad but i started to work… now all my associates like my girlfriend and they wud all be after her, i felt betrayed. but i felt guilty at the same time. me and my girlfried broke up then… i stated seing other people. she didnt i found out that she wanted to make me jelous. i saw her coming out of the theater with another guy. i was so mad! i felt stupid, my head got light, i felt like throwing up, i wanted to kill her, strangle her make her suffer but i just slamed my head against the wall and i puch it making my nuckle bleed. ( then i realized the guy had a girlfriend already and she was with him there, she just wanted to make me jelous.) i had alot of emotions i wud cry at all time.telling got to finish me up. cursing at god… hating god. i lost will of everything i lost weight… i was always hungry but depression wud take the hunger oway. i was leaving by my self at that time. my mom found out i droped out highschool so she came to pick me upshe said tht she had a job for me and she had everything .. for me . i m=changes states… everything was just as she said ( except for the job part) i really missed my girlfriend, she missed me too. she wud cry for me to come back…. she wud say that she shouldnt have told me to leave. and i wud get depressed. i am 19 now … all i do all day is play games, sleep till noon or sometimes i wouldntsleep for a whole day…. and i dont have will for nothing. i go job hunting with my mom but nthing… i just feel worse cus i see in their eyes the dissapoinment… they think i am lazy, maibe i am… cus lately all i do is stay on bed wondering without wanting to do anything. sometimes i say