Posts Tagged ‘friendship’

is living alone unhealthy?

I am entering my junior year of college and transferring to a different school. I have lived with friends in dorm before, but never in an apartment alone.
I want a one bedroom because I really tend to need my space and down time away from people. I am not anti-social, but I definitely have some anxieties around strangers, especially other people my age. I am 20 years old and will be living with my dog, but I am really afraid I will get lonely when I see other college students out and about with friends, roommates, etc. I do talk to others easily, but it never turns into a friendship and I don’t know why.

Anyways, my question is, do you think it would be lonely, depressing, unhealthy to live by myself at college where I dont know anyone?

I'm starting a new course, need some advice?

It’s just a basic course to help people become employed and start finding a career you earn accreditation’s and I’m not so worried about the work cause I’m a very intelligent person and never had problems with education or work. My only worries are my confidence and the fact that i’m anti-social.

The course is for young adults aged 16-18 and I haven’t been in much contact with people that age for ages, I can speak to people but I have problems trusting them and building a friendship with people. I’m very nervous about starting tomorrow, is there anything I can do to build up my confidence cause I don’t want to seem like a cold person avoiding everyone.

How to progress to physical intimacy and loving stage with a woman asap?

I havent been intimate with a woman for unbearable periods of time.
How do I pop the question from the stage I got the woman’s phone number?
I dont want to be abrupt or rude but Im too honest.

Like today, was having a phone conversation with a woman and I wanted us to both find out about each other.
So I told her that Im healthy and I like women with high sex drives.
And I asked her what she liked and she wouldnt say anything.
Then she wouldnt take my calls.

Maybe shes not really compatiable with me.
Where then can I find women who know what they want.
Friendship is fine too but I like to know where they stand and what they want and not have to play some mind-guessing game.

What can you tell about a woman who wears a flower tattoo on her upper right shoulder blade ?

O.K. I recently had a falling out with a woman who always refered to me as her best friend. I caught her in tons of lies during our ,so-called, friendship and the rest of the time she just baffled me with her evasive personality and quirks. She had the most amazing flower tattoo (I think it was supposed to be an Iris or Orchid ) on her upper right shoulder blade.
I see in various magazines that alot of attention has been given to tattoos ,their art and body location and what they can tell about the person.
Any one have some thoughts on what I didn’t know about my ex friend based on her tattoo ??
By the way I’m still crazy ,mad in love with her. I suppose my tattoo should be "Fool 4 love" across my forehead.