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I am 23 years old I have no children and I am getting married towards the end of this year. Me and my fiance have been going over what birth control ideas we should do and both of us keep coming back to me getting a vasectomy. She has used birth control in the past and many different brands and has gotten very sick off of all of them so that is out of the question and along with all the other birth controls for women because of the products that are in them. And condoms are too unpredictable and also them feeling odd. Getting her tubes tied is too expensive and I would never want her to go through that if such a quick surgery could be done to me with minimal problems. So if anyone could help Do i have grounds for a Vasectomy? I know that some doctors will not give you one if you do not have kids or if its not a medical problem. Also forgot to mention that the kids factor is that there are so many kids out there to be adopted that in the future if we ever did have the urge to have a child adoption is such a great thing, my sister has two children that are adopted and its been such a blessing, so is this somethingg that I should bring up when seeing the doctor. So if anyone has ever went through this and could help just drop an answer for me. Thanks

I have been getting sick every time I eat or think about or see food. My fiance is feeling it too. We’ve been more tired than usual and both have had food cravings mostly for cake. About a few weeks ago I bled for one day and thought I was starting my period after being off it for only one week. I had a heat stroke last week and they called me anorexic, told me I had a bladder infection and stomach virus but I still can’t eat. I took an at home pregnancy test and it came back negative, but I never have had a pregnancy test come back positive and I miscarried 2 years ago. I had cervical cancer (beginning stages) about 8 months ago and that caused a few symptoms. I am overdue to get retested for the cancer. My fiance keeps wanting to say you all to me and keeps feeling like theres someone with us. We thought we could feel a heartbeat in my stomach and it was hurting bad yesterday. Could I be pregnant?

my fiance is on an anti-depressant she says kills her sex drive. we have sex maybe once every 2 weeks or so… if i’m lucky. usually its about once a month unless theres a special occasion thrown in there. were both 23 so age is definitely not a factor. my previous gf and i had sex at least 5 times a week, with oral thrown in there a few times a week as well. i am attracted to her, not as much as past gfs but when i considered marriage other things were more important. so i guess what i’m asking is if any other girls who are on an anti-depressants have their sex drive killed too? the particular one she is on is lexapro.

I am 29 years old and have had depression for as long as I can possibly remember. I have been on anti-depressants since 13 (therapy since 2nd grade) and as I get older the anti-depressants seem to work less and less. I have been on practically all of them, you name it. Last year I was also diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis and I recently received new MRI’s and needless to say they are worse then last year (just a year!). I feel very hopeless right now. I am wondering if anyone can relate to what I am going through. I have a great fiance and family but still feel utterly alone. With Major Depression, BPD, and Multiple Sclerosis I feel like I have a death sentence. I have had 4 suicide attempts since the age of 19 and I really feel like a actual "attempt" is looming. I feel like there is no point in going on. I am scared, sad, and pissed off that this is my life. I can’t recall any happiness and with this new MS diagnoses I know it will only get worse….

I’m recently separated from my ex-fiance and the father or my two children and pregnant 17 weeks with our unborn. I have gone through stages, sometimes wondering obsessively where he is, why he’s left our family for the 3rd time during my 3rd pregnancy. But most recently I’ve been up all night worrying myself sick about moving back into our house. I had to get a restraining order against him and it first gave me exclusive residence of our home. I moved out however because he was shutting off the utilities, showing up unexpectedly with his mom (whom has caused many troubles in our lives) and I didn’t know if I’d be successful in getting the order of protection. At the time it was only temporary. Well, when we went to court his attorney told mine, she can continue to live in the house, he’ll pay child support and he wants the order revised to include visitation with his children. At the time I had already moved out, so we advised the judge and he was allowed to move back in the house as part of a stipulation to my injunction. Well, since then I’ve found out he’s planning on moving 3 hours south to be near his family, let our house go into foreclosure and he changed the locks even though he was not granted exclusive residence. So I want to see about getting the order revised to allow me to move back into the house because the apartment were living in now has been difficult for my children to adjust to, doesn’t have a yard or a sfae area to park my car like I had the garage before, the kids keep asking to go home, not to mention I work from home and I can’t get wireless internet connection in the new community I live in because there aren’t any ports available. I was up all night worrying if this would work, I have an interest in our house and want to continue to live there, without allowing it to go into foreclosure. But I know that because of the spiteful personality my ex has he’s going to make it hell for me. What do you think my chances are of being allowed to move back in? How can I get my head clear of worrying until I have a chance to address this with my attorney on Thursday of next week?

I just started taking the BC pill called Yaz… I have been on and off of anti- anxiety/depression medication since about age 16. In my mind I keep thinking that it is something that will just go away (the anxiety and depression that is) but it isn’t going anywhere. I am constantly worrying and feeling like I’ll have panic attacks over the smallest things. I just want to live normally and have an open mind. I feel very blah, and like my life is hazy all the time. Can medication help me? Therapy maybe? I don’t know, I am just so sick of living like this and I’m sick of my fiance making comments about how I seem depressed all the time. We have a 3 month old baby that makes me so happy but I can’t enjoy it because of this problem. Any suggestions?