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Hi everyone,

I’m 26 and am in a relationship with a lovely guy, aged 27, and have been for almost 18 months. I suffer with severe depression and anxiety. I’m on anti depressants, (Sertraline), and I’m receiving counselling. I’ve been quite open over my feelings with my boyfriend, and he’s been supportive. I’ve only recently started taking the anti depressants, (about 3 weeks ago), and they seem to have increased my insecurities. Whilst I’m with my bf, I’m ok, but as soon as we’re apart, I start having massive doubts as to his feelings for me. I’ve told him I don’t feel loved when I’m with him, and he asked what he could do to help, but I couldn’t answer. For instance, this weekend, he went to a party, so I went to see a girlfriend. The whole time, I was obsessing over my phone and why he wasn’t texting me back straight away etc. I know it was irrational and paranoid of me, but I can’t help it! I don’t want to keep going on at him, and saying "I need you to reassure me" all the time, because he shouldn’t have to.

I am having regular meet ups with my dr to discuss my medication, and she wants me to stick with it. What can I do to remind myself that he does love me when we’re apart? I know in my heart he does, but I get this nauseating feeling in my stomach and get all panicky that he doesn’t. Has anyone else gone through this? Or can anyone give me some advice? I want to be a happy person who he looks forward to seeing, and my fears will turn into a self fulfilling prophecy at this rate.

Thanks everyone
I meant I don’t feel loved when I’m NOT with him…

Hi. Like most girls at 17 I love wearing flip flops all the time but many articles say they are bad for your feet. I don’t get it.

The anti-flipflop articles say that b/c flip flops lack arch support your feet may get fallen arches. However many websites that encourage bare feet (which I also do a lot but only indoors) say that going barefoot can HELP strengthen your feet and develop good arches.

See the contradiction? Going barefoot and flip flops both have no arch support but barefoot can "tone your feet" and flip flops will "cause fallen arches". It makes no sense. I think flip flops is the closest you can get to natural barefoot walking without dirty feet and risk injury/infection. Can someone explain? Thanks!

Oh if you are a girl and age 15-25 please also see my bf’s question: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/;_ylt=Au9U2HuU2cmoOTC_5PKlUBsjzKIX?qid=20060618235316AAv8YbX
It’s also about feet. Actually we’re working together to make a statement to my brother so pls reply!

I have recently had intercourse with my bf and the condom broke. I am in the early stages of my cycle, and he was only 1/4 of the way there when we realized it was broken, and he pulled out. What is the chance of a pregnancy?

Okay, now listen up please. I’m not going to insult you or attack your beliefs. I’m also not going to say that your religion is wrong as I’m Jewish, so I can see where religious beliefs fit in to the equation and would, thus, ask you that you refrain from telling me that I don’t get it.

So, here’s the deal: There has been, and I imagine will continue to be, a great number of boys and girls of various ages who post questions on this board about masturbating. They want to know if it’s okay to do it, because clearly society continues to keep them in the dark about it, or if anything to present negative aspects about it. It’s quite common for boys to joke about it, or to insult their peers by claiming that they do it (as though it’s something to be ashamed of). They come up with insults like "jack off" or "wanker" or "go f*** yourself" or other masturbation derivatives, to make the concept of it something bad or wrong.

And for girls, well…it’s just not done. Some girls seem to be unaware that they even can do it. And if they find themselves doing it, they are labeled as "sluts" or "whores" or "nymphos".

Parents and religions teach these kids that it is wrong to do it, and that it’s a sin. And if they do it, they are going to hell. Many boys still believe that it will make their penis fall off, that they will run out of sperm, that they will go blind or get really sick. Many boys who feel that masturbating makes them gay. Many girls believe that if they masturbate, they are no longer virgins and/or that no guy would want them.

Society is poisoning our children against it, and so many come here to ask their peers for advice, information, and to clear up misconceptions. And then you guys come along and spout off about how they are wrong to do it, that it’s a sin, that they are going to go to hell. You tell them to just go and find a gf/bf, when many of them are 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14 and have no business dating or having actual sex.

Look, some of these kids come here because they are scared, unsure or want answers that their school and parents aren’t giving them. And your fear tactics and religious quotations are not helping them. Please keep your bible thumping for the church and stop scaring kids away. It’s fine if you want to believe these things, but these kids are probably hearing it enough already and don’t need it from here.

In conclusion, masturbation is fine, normal and healthy for boys and girls of all ages and marital statuses to do. And don’t let anybody tell you different!
Also, while I’m on the subject, I’d like to say to all the boys who come on this site…

Your penis size is normal; stop worrying.

My gf had unprotected sex with a guy we know. Later she is told that he has HPV. I would like to know if he can get it from one woman, pass it on to another and her pass it to her bf.

If anyone knows somewhere I can register my view as anti-abortion, please let me know.

There are no excuses for murder in this day & age. Mental health is a stupid excuse, my mental health suffers from it going on. If your life is physically in danger IE cancer r only excuse. As some1 who has been raped. I know rape is no excuse. If u face this, u know it can lead 2 pregnancy & take the morning after pill straight away, if u do not want 2 get pregnant. 2 stop conception from happening. I am peed off @ people claiming rape & u know they weren’t.

And people claiming a child will ruin their life. What they mean is whoa is me, I won’t b able to afford that jacuzzi I had my eye on. If your bf leaves u, who cares, your child won’t. Two parents does not equal happy child, believe me, I know.

To protect a child being born ill & suffering! Doctors make mistakes, they r not Gods. + people can surprise u, its instinct to want to survive. Drugs after full gestation can take away pain.