How do I stop worrying over my upcoming birthday?
I will be turing 30 in a couple of months and although I wasn’t concerned at first, I always saw aging as a natural thing…now I have become very anxious and obsessed about getting older.
I worry that I won’t be considered desirable anymore and that I will just fade away. I know this sounds crazy. I have always been a pretty earthy natural person..but now I have bought tons of anti aging products and am considering starting to wear makeup to hide my aging.
I often find myself thinking about my college days lately and how I had so much fun and was so carefree.
I left college and worked in law enforcement with has made me a someone paranoid and cynical person.
I know you can’t redo the past, but how do I shake this so I can look forward to the future?
I have linked some pics of me…tell me how old do I look…HONESTLY..lol.
most recent ( last week)
http://www.facebook.com/mskamiko#!/photo.php?pid=31115226&id=1396789414
a few months ago
http://www.facebook.com/christal.butler?v=photos&ref=profile#!/photo.php?pid=30689938&id=1396789414
Looks have nothing to do with anything. It’s how you feel. If you judge yourself on how other’s perceive your physical appearance that you have bigger issues than age. Being in my 30′s has been great for me. I’m smarter, I know who I am and what I’m about. I don’t have the nagging doubts that I had in my 20′s. I also think I am taken more seriously by my peers and co-workers. Embrace this next part of your life. Build on who you’ve become. Get to know yourself and your value as a human being.